Monday, 10 March 2025

Historic Oxford

It has, quite simply, been tooooooo long since we've been able to organise our own Chaplaincy coach trips.  So, I'd like to thank each of the Universities @ Medway for the increase to our activities budget.  Our day in Oxford this past weekend felt really special πŸ’–πŸ’–πŸ’–

I'd also really like to thank all the students for turning up on time, both to leave Medway and to return home 🚌 

Unfortunately, the toilets on the coach were not accessible on the route to Oxford (will speak with the coach company), which meant we needed a stop at the services which, in turn, made us late and robbed us of some time in Oxford. Thank you, everyone, for not complaining too loudly. I always struggle when there's an issue that's outside of my control.

Anyway, that's enough of that  ...  now to the good part. Photos and feedback from students, all of whom seem to have really enjoyed their day.


 
 








For me, personally, the day was super special as I got to spend it with Dominika, one of our Greenwich alumni.  
Dominika graduated in July 2022 and stayed in my home for several months before landing herself a good job in Oxford. We had not seen each other for three years, so there was a LOT of catching up to do.

TABLEtalk International Night

One never quite knows what to expect when it comes to our International Nights. Will lots of people want to participate πŸ˜€ Will no one😟

Last Thursday was fantastic and I really want to thank everyone who came, everyone who brought food and, especially, everyone who shared something of their culture.

Sushmitha, from India, gave a beautiful demonstration of yoga. In all seriousness, please don't try this at home!!



Despite being from the Amazon region, Milenka represented the highland peoples of Peru with a rendition on the zampona.  She was apologetic about her few mistakes but, trust me, we were all enthralled 😍


We took a performance break for my international quiz. Everyone did really well, we had some laughs and the winning team were ...
Colette from Kenya, Victor from Nigeria,
Naresh and Sush from India

Colette gave us a wonderful insight into Kenya, its people and culture. I could have listened for ages.
Kenya has 47 ethnic groups, but Colette is from the Kikuyu, which is the largest ethnic group. They are known for their role in Kenya attaining independence in 1963 through a movement called Mau Mau; and they occupy the Mt. Kenya region (central Kenya). Mt Kenya is the second-highest mountain in Africa and has snow!

They believe Ngai (God) created humanity, the 1st man called Gikuyu, and the 1st woman called Mumbi. Ngai created a mountain "as His resting place when on an inspection tour and as a sign of His wonders." Kikuyus used to, and still do, worship while facing the mountain, a practice that continues as a pilgrimage. 

Fun fact: 10 is considered a number of completion, but the Kikuyu believe it is a bad omen, as one can never have enough. Gikuyu and Mumbi had ten daughters, but uttering the number 10 is avoided. 
 
A Marriage has several different stages: 
1. Traditional Proposal – This normally involves a back-and-forth poetic exchange between the boy and girl.  
2. Njurio – Acceptance of the proposal. The boy informs his family, who then gather the village elders and the girl's parents. The girl is asked to conrm her acceptance not with a "yes" or "no," but by serving traditional beer to her future father-in-law. 
3. Ruracio – The giving of dowry. Dowry, typically in the form of cattle, is delivered to the girl's family. The boy's family must persuade the girl's family to let them in. 
4. Goima Ceremony – Slaughtering of a sheep in preparation for the wedding. 
5. Ngurario – The grand wedding day. The ceremony involves various traditions, including the bride showcasing her "wife qualities" and how she would care for her husband. 

The Kikuyu traditionally feared handling the dead, as contact with a corpse was considered thahu (an abomination). If a person died at home, the hut had to be demolished. The dying were taken to the bush, where a leash was tied to their right hand and tugged during meal times to check if they were still alive. A hyena was expected to dispose of the corpse when they joined their ancestors.  Today, the Kikuyu bury their dead but observe purication rites. 

Colette's great-grandfather, Karuri wa Gakure, played a key role in introducing Christianity to central Kenya. He welcomed the gospel by receiving the first Consolata Missionaries in his small village at Tuthu. Not only did he allow the missionaries to settle in his area, but he also provided them with land. Because of this, his children were among the first Kenyans to embrace education and Christianity as soon as it became available. As a result, most of my father’s side of the family is very studious and well-educated. Safe to say, I am royalty—with no royal privileges. πŸ˜€

The Kikuyu people have a rich history, deep traditions, and strong cultural values. From their ght for independence to their beliefs and customs, the Kikuyu have shaped Kenya’s history. 


Last, but by no means least, Vaishnavi gave us a lesson on the sari and draping culture, which dates way back to the ancient Egyptians.  With help from Sush, she then demonstrated how to put a sari on. I don't think Milenka, will every forget this evening.

You really can't leave an evening like this without a group selfie, especially as it was Jacob's last evening.  He deserves BIG CONGRATULATIONS on finding a job in Farnborough.

Jacob we wish you all God's blessings for your future!



When you need a group selfie, it's super useful
to have Jude's long arms πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„